I’m officially at chapter 37 of my life. This past year has been one of the most challenging years of my life but at the same time it is when I’ve felt most blessed and happy. Let me add that I’m especially thankful that through these 37 years of life I’ve only found 2 grey hairs and I look like a 25-year-old…. I have lucky genes.
If I could put a title to this year, it would be “The Year of Transitions and New Beginnings.” This past year I risked it all leaving my life in Puerto Rico behind and moving to New York. It’s a decision I don’t regret because I’ve grown and progressed in so many areas of my life. Within my family the challenges were great from even having to confront my mother’s difficult health situation. My mother’s physical and mental health has been in very bad condition and a very difficult decision was made for her own well-belling. Another struggle faced this year was having my instagram, facebook and even whatsapp hacked and disabled which led me to lose years of hard work, tons of content, past and even current brand sponsorships. If I’m honest, I know there is a bigger purpose in what happened and something better is coming. Starting over doesn’t scare me. As I mentioned before, social media doesn’t define me or my accomplishments. I know my value and nothing will break me down. In life you must accept what is and let go of what you can’t control.
As you gain experience and wisdom you see things differently. I used to compare my life to others and frustrate myself because I wasn’t where I wanted to be in life. Letting go of that way of thinking helped me grow and appreciate the moment I was living in my life. Everyone’s timeline is different, unique, and special. I am embracing and loving where I am in life.
I’ve experienced so many things in life and have accomplished goals I never imagined possible. With my long list of goals, I know there is much more to accomplish. There are a few tips I want to share to give others some of the wisdom I’ve gained.
First of all, don’t ever settle! No matter what the world thinks or says don’t ever settle for anything less than what you deserve. Don’t settle for a guy, don’t settle for a job, don’t settle for anything.
Don’t be afraid and take risks! Holding onto fear is a waste of time. Go after what you want, even if you fail, it’s ok and just try again.
Step out of your comfort zone! There is nothing I hate more than a comfort zone. There are so many amazing things waiting for you outside of that zone you are so afraid to come out of. Be brave and experience Life!
No matter where you are in life or your age you can reinvent yourself. The world is full of endless opportunities and possibilities. Just because it has taken you longer or because something hasn’t happened to you yet, it doesn’t mean that it won’t. Don’t give up.
Remember that you are special, you are amazing, you are loved and you have an amazing purpose in life.
Thank you all for being part of my life and journey. I’m very excited and looking forward to this next year of life. There is so much more for me to experience. I will continue my mission to inspire and empower.
Be Lovely, Be You
Charlene Gonzalez
