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Hey everyone!  I know I’ve been a bit MIA lately, but I’ve been on a journey of healing over the past few months. I’ve faced some tough challenges recently; including deception and betrayal, and it’s made me rethink trust—something I’ve lost in many people. But this process has been essential for me to understand how powerful God is as he guides me through this season.

God’s protection and love for me have been truly immense. I went through a really dark time, and there was a moment when I tried to take my own life, but God saved me. In my anger and pain, He taught me to trust Him completely and to leave revenge in His hands, as He is just.

Sometimes, our purpose is so immense that the enemy tries to destroy and throw us off course, but I refuse to let him have the victory. Most importantly, no matter how much pain and hurt I was in I had to forgive. Forgiveness sets you free and I didn’t want to live in bondage. God has showered me with perfect love, grace, and mercy even bringing spiritual, emotional, mental and physical healing.

Throughout this journey, I’ve been blessed with the support of so many incredible, God-fearing people. I’ve always been open about my experiences because I believe that sharing our journeys can help others. Soon, I’ll share my testimony with all of you because no matter how dark the situation I faced was there is great purpose in it. 

“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose” -Romans 8:28

Isn’t it amazing that during this time of renewal, we get to celebrate one of my favorite seasons, Spring? I absolutely adore spring and all the beauty it brings, especially the gorgeous cherry blossoms! I’m that person who is always taking pictures of cherry blossoms, even though people passing by may think I’m crazy. I mean, how can you not snap a million pictures of them? They are breathtaking. Did you know that cherry blossoms symbolize renewal and the beauty of life? 

They mark the arrival of spring, which is all about new beginnings and transformation. Since they bloom for only a few weeks, they remind us to cherish every single moment. This joy and renewal mirror the transformation I’m embracing in my life.

I know many of you are going through tough times too. Remember, God is bigger than any challenges you’re facing. Trust Him and know that He loves you deeply! 

Be Lovely, Be You

Charlene Gonzalez 

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By Charlene Gonzalez

As an influencer, I’ve always held the belief that having influence means nothing if it’s not used for good. Throughout my journey as a content creator and influencer, I’ve experienced many special and transformative moments that have deepened my appreciation for life, even amidst its chaos. One of those beautiful and unforgettable moments in my life was this remarkable girl Stephanie who inspired me in ways I will never forget. 

Thanks to my dear friend Ivania, I had the privilege of meeting Stephanie, who dreamed of having her epic blogger moment but was courageously battling cancer.

We came together to organize a special photoshoot and give her a makeover—an experience that filled her with pure joy and sparkled in her eyes.

Though her battle on this earth has come to an end, her life will forever serve as a reminder for me to live with purpose and cherish every single moment I am given.  She was beyond brilliant and had so many goals. Stephanie taught me that every heartbeat holds meaning, and there’s beauty to be found, even in the darkest of times. Her legacy will continue to inspire me to use my influence for good, to lift others, and to embrace life with open arms.

Be Lovely, Be You

Charlene Gonzalez 

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By Charlene Gonzalez

On Sunday, January 19th, New York experienced its first snowstorm of the year. That night, I found myself in a terrifying situation that served as a profound reminder of God’s protection in my life.

As I carefully drove on the snowy roads, turning cautiously around a curve, my car suddenly lost control. In an instant, it swerved toward a barricade that dropped off into a cliff. I felt a surge of panic as I desperately tried everything I could to regain control, but nothing worked. As I braced myself for the worst, I closed my eyes, and in that heart-stopping moment, the car came to an abrupt halt right near the edge. My heart knew, without a doubt, that God had intervened and stopped the car. 

It’s incredible how quickly thoughts can flood your mind in moments like these. In the split second where I felt my life flash before my eyes, I realized something profound: when I let go of trying to control the situation, God took over. Lately, I’ve been carrying a lot on my shoulders, and there are times when doubt creeps in, clouding my ability to fully trust that He is in control.

This wasn’t the first time I’ve found myself in life-threatening situations. From the brink of being kidnapped to car accidents and heart-wrenching heartbreaks, I’ve experienced God’s protection time and time again. In every moment of fear and uncertainty, He has always provided a way out and filled my heart with peace.

Even in the face of death, God was reminding me that He is ultimately in control. He was urging me to let go of everything that weighs me down and to trust Him completely. His plans for my life are greater than I can comprehend, and His timing is perfect. I was reminded that I was created for a purpose, for such a time as this.

So, I want to take this moment to encourage you: no matter what you’re facing, trust God. He is with you, guiding you through every storm and reminding you that you are never alone.

Be Lovely, Be You

Charlene Gonzalez

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By Charlene Gonzalez

This Christmas season feels like a true miracle. As I spent the holidays surrounded by my mom and sister, I can’t help but reflect on how far we’ve come. Earlier this year, we faced unimaginable challenges—there were moments when we feared we might not all be together again. My mom was in a coma, given little chance to live, and the uncertainty was overwhelming. 2024 brought so many challenges that were very difficult. 

Yet here we are, and our time together is nothing short of a testament to the power of love and hope. Every laugh, every hug, and every shared moment is a reminder of the prayers that have been answered, and I am filled with an indescribable gratitude.

Our Christmas party was a joyful celebration of life. We indulged in great food, sipped on coquito, enjoyed a lively Puerto Rican parranda, and even had a few laughs playing a hilarious twerking game (which was a challenge in high heels, let me tell you!). I even dressed up as The Grinch to surprise my mom! 

As we gathered to celebrate Christmas, I realize that it’s not just the festivities that make this season special; it’s the love that binds us, always remembering that Jesus is the true reason for this season. I am incredibly grateful for this Christmas, for my family, and for the miracle of being together. Here’s to cherishing every moment and holding onto hope—now and always.

Be Lovely, Be You

Charlene Gonzalez 

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By Charlene Gonzalez