All Posts By Charlene Gonzalez

As an influencer, I’ve always held the belief that having influence means nothing if it’s not used for good. Throughout my journey as a content creator and influencer, I’ve experienced many special and transformative moments that have deepened my appreciation for life, even amidst its chaos. One of those beautiful and unforgettable moments in my life was this remarkable girl Stephanie who inspired me in ways I will never forget. 

Thanks to my dear friend Ivania, I had the privilege of meeting Stephanie, who dreamed of having her epic blogger moment but was courageously battling cancer.

We came together to organize a special photoshoot and give her a makeover—an experience that filled her with pure joy and sparkled in her eyes.

Though her battle on this earth has come to an end, her life will forever serve as a reminder for me to live with purpose and cherish every single moment I am given.  She was beyond brilliant and had so many goals. Stephanie taught me that every heartbeat holds meaning, and there’s beauty to be found, even in the darkest of times. Her legacy will continue to inspire me to use my influence for good, to lift others, and to embrace life with open arms.

Be Lovely, Be You

Charlene Gonzalez 

On Sunday, January 19th, New York experienced its first snowstorm of the year. That night, I found myself in a terrifying situation that served as a profound reminder of God’s protection in my life.

As I carefully drove on the snowy roads, turning cautiously around a curve, my car suddenly lost control. In an instant, it swerved toward a barricade that dropped off into a cliff. I felt a surge of panic as I desperately tried everything I could to regain control, but nothing worked. As I braced myself for the worst, I closed my eyes, and in that heart-stopping moment, the car came to an abrupt halt right near the edge. My heart knew, without a doubt, that God had intervened and stopped the car. 

It’s incredible how quickly thoughts can flood your mind in moments like these. In the split second where I felt my life flash before my eyes, I realized something profound: when I let go of trying to control the situation, God took over. Lately, I’ve been carrying a lot on my shoulders, and there are times when doubt creeps in, clouding my ability to fully trust that He is in control.

This wasn’t the first time I’ve found myself in life-threatening situations. From the brink of being kidnapped to car accidents and heart-wrenching heartbreaks, I’ve experienced God’s protection time and time again. In every moment of fear and uncertainty, He has always provided a way out and filled my heart with peace.

Even in the face of death, God was reminding me that He is ultimately in control. He was urging me to let go of everything that weighs me down and to trust Him completely. His plans for my life are greater than I can comprehend, and His timing is perfect. I was reminded that I was created for a purpose, for such a time as this.

So, I want to take this moment to encourage you: no matter what you’re facing, trust God. He is with you, guiding you through every storm and reminding you that you are never alone.

Be Lovely, Be You

Charlene Gonzalez

This Christmas season feels like a true miracle. As I spent the holidays surrounded by my mom and sister, I can’t help but reflect on how far we’ve come. Earlier this year, we faced unimaginable challenges—there were moments when we feared we might not all be together again. My mom was in a coma, given little chance to live, and the uncertainty was overwhelming. 2024 brought so many challenges that were very difficult. 

Yet here we are, and our time together is nothing short of a testament to the power of love and hope. Every laugh, every hug, and every shared moment is a reminder of the prayers that have been answered, and I am filled with an indescribable gratitude.

Our Christmas party was a joyful celebration of life. We indulged in great food, sipped on coquito, enjoyed a lively Puerto Rican parranda, and even had a few laughs playing a hilarious twerking game (which was a challenge in high heels, let me tell you!). I even dressed up as The Grinch to surprise my mom! 

As we gathered to celebrate Christmas, I realize that it’s not just the festivities that make this season special; it’s the love that binds us, always remembering that Jesus is the true reason for this season. I am incredibly grateful for this Christmas, for my family, and for the miracle of being together. Here’s to cherishing every moment and holding onto hope—now and always.

Be Lovely, Be You

Charlene Gonzalez 

As I stand on the threshold of 39, I won’t lie — the excitement wasn’t exactly bubbling over. In fact, I can vividly recall feeling just as apprehensive when I turned 29. There’s something about these transitional years, these “bridge years,” that can feel daunting. But I’ve learned that once you close that chapter and step into the next decade, things often start to click into place. That was certainly my experience when I turned 30.

In preparing to write this post, I found myself diving into the reflections of other women who had reached this milestone. I’ll be honest — it stirred up some feelings. Many of them are married, with families, and I couldn’t help but feel a bit of sadness that my journey looks different. But then, like a gentle nudge of grace I got a reality check and a powerful realization: my life is uniquely mine, crafted with purpose, and my path is not meant to mirror anyone else’s. Each twist and turn is a part of a divine design, and I’m learning to trust that.

Oh, what a journey it has been! I’ve lived so many lives within this one, navigating through major changes and transitions that have shaped who I am today. My 30s have been a canvas of exploration, allowing me to discover what truly resonates with my soul — what brings me joy, what drains me, and the spaces where I feel most safe, comfortable, and empowered. I’ve come to appreciate the preciousness of my time, energy, and attention, realizing how vital it is to invest in what uplifts me.

I’m incredibly grateful for the circle of support I’ve cultivated around me. I’ve surrounded myself with people who love, respect, celebrate, and inspire me. When I look into the mirror, I see someone I genuinely love. The self-critical voices that once clouded my mind in my 20s and early 30s have transformed into a chorus of encouragement. In a world that often feels unpredictable, I’ve found it easier to tap into a deep sense of inner peace.

As I step into this final year of my 30s, I feel a profound sense of gratitude and calm wash over me. Turning 39 feels like a significant turning point, filled with potential and promise. I have plans, dreams, and aspirations for this next chapter, and no matter what challenges lie ahead or unexpected twists life presents, I know that I will always make it through. 

One of the most important lessons I’ve learned in the past year is the value of cherishing each moment. Life is delicate and unpredictable; it can change in an instant. I’m thankful for the growth I’ve experienced, for the resilience I’ve built amidst life’s challenges. Each day is an opportunity to become a better version of myself, and I’m excited for what lies ahead.

Here comes a new year filled with new achievements, new adventures, and new possibilities. Happy birthday to me! It’s a privilege to celebrate another year of life, embracing good health, peace, and the chance to accomplish great things. 

I’m overwhelmed with gratitude for my blessings and hopeful for the future. Here’s to a wonderful birthday and the journey ahead as I close this chapter and live this last year in my 30s. Trusting in God’s plan, I am ready for whatever comes next even a major plot twist. 

Be Lovely, Be You

Charlene Gonzalez