My grandmother was laid to rest in Puerto Rico on June 9th. Although she spent most of her life in New York, her heart belonged to Puerto Rico, particularly to Ciales, the town where she was born and raised, nestled in the tropical mountains of the island.
During my visit last visit to Puerto Rico I explored Ciales to uncover the essence of her childhood. My journey was filled with breathtaking scenery, as lush mountains framed the horizon and valleys unfolded like a vibrant tapestry. The long road led me to Paseo Lineal Juan Antonio Corretjer, a scenic overlook that showcased the beauty of Ciales, a spot known for various famous food trucks that offer a variety of delightful culinary treats. I enjoyed crispy alcapurrias and refreshing piña coladas that tasted delicious, each bite transporting me closer to the memories of my grandmother. I’m a lover of all gastronomy but nothing delights my belly and soul like traditional Puerto Rican cuisine.
Admiring this serene area, I had a profound connection with grandma. Viewing the majestic mountains and even a tranquil lake, I couldn’t help but wonder if this was the very spot where she washed clothes in her youth. I could almost visualize her there, and I recalled her amusing stories of being courted by suitors, wondering over where those encounters might have taken place.
Even though my grandmother was no longer physically present, her presence felt alive all around me. The vibrant landscapes and beauty of Ciales served as reminders of her legacy, bringing me closer to her than I ever anticipated.
This journey transcended more than a mere visit; it became a heartfelt homage to the woman who shaped my family’s history. Ciales has etched itself permanently in my heart, standing as a testament to the love and memories shared across generations. Reflecting on this experience leaves me with countless unanswered questions and a deep yearning to discover more about my grandmother’s life and her past.
Bad Bunny is currently celebrating his residency in Puerto Rico, drawing thousands to my beautiful island over the coming months. As a passionate advocate for everything Puerto Rico has to offer—from its delicious food to trendy fashion, beautiful destinations and vibrant entertainment—I’m thrilled to launch a special series highlighting must-visit places and activities for your trip.
First things first: where to stay? Puerto Rico has a wide range of accommodations, but one hotel that holds a special place in my heart is the Comfort Inn & Suites in Levittown. Managed by the Brenda Bauzo, who has been an inspiring figure in my life and in the creation of this blog, Lovely Chicas. This hotel truly stands out. I’ve spent many years working with Comfort Inn and have hosted numerous influencer events there, so it has always felt like home to me. Many of my photoshoots for Lovely Chicas were taken at Comfort Inn.
Located in Toa Baja, Comfort Inn Suites is a beachfront hotel nestled in a peaceful area with many local attractions nearby. During my recent visit to Puerto Rico, following the passing of my grandmother, I chose Comfort Inn as my sanctuary. I knew I could find the peace I needed there. The hotel features fantastic amenities, comfortable rooms, a stunning pool, and a complimentary breakfast to start your day right. Interested in booking your stay visit https://www.comfortinnpr.com o call (787)-641-9090
If you’re a foodie, there are plenty of delicious dining options in Toa Baja, as well as in nearby towns like Dorado, Cataño, and Bayamón. Plus, the hotel is conveniently located just 20-30 minutes from the airport and the Coliseo de Puerto Rico, where Bad Bunny’s concerts are held.
For a unique experience, a visit to the Bacardi Rum Distillery is essential. And don’t forget to take the ferry from Cataño to Old San Juan to explore iconic sites like El Morro and so much more!
Stay tuned for more tips and insights into the best experiences Puerto Rico has to offer as we celebrate Bad Bunny’s exciting residency together! Whether you’re here for the music, the culture, or the incredible scenery, you won’t want to miss all the magic that my beautiful island has in store!
As an avid fan of “Squid Game,” I was both excited and anxious when the season finale dropped recently. Like many others, I experienced a whirlwind of emotions as I watched the final moments unfold. Honestly, I wasn’t entirely satisfied with the ending. It felt a bit abrupt, leaving me with so many unanswered questions and the nagging feeling that the story is still unfinished. I truly believe there were opportunities for more seasons!
To celebrate the journey of “Squid Game,” my bestie and I decided to visit the Squid Game Experience in NYC. This event is a thrilling homage to the iconic series that plunges fans right into the heart of the games. It features a series of five games, including the infamous “red light, green light.” Walking through this experience was surreal, as it artfully recreated many of the striking scenes from the show, including dormitory and the unforgettable guards with their vibrant pink suits.
I have to admit, I’m pretty competitive, so losing the games hit hard! I’m convinced there must be some form of cheating involved because losing just didn’t sit right with me!
The Squid Game Experience is located in K-Town, NYC, which is an added bonus! After diving into the games, my friend and I explored the area and explored all the Korean delights. I’ve been there many times but it was her first. From delicious Korean eateries to lively K-pop stores and skin care shops filled with the latest K-beauty trends; K-Town has it all. It’s a fantastic way to spend the day, and I highly recommend visiting if you find yourself in the area.
I don’t want to spoil too much for those who haven’t experienced it yet, so I’ll keep the details brief. Whether you’re a die-hard fan or just curious about the phenomenon, the Squid Game Experience is truly one not to miss. All in all, it was a memorable day, and if there’s one thing I’m sure of, it’s that the world of “Squid Game” has left a lasting impact that I can’t wait to see evolve in the future!
Just like that, we celebrate another blogiversary! Thirteen years ago today, I launched Lovely Chicas, and it has truly been one of the greatest blessings of my life.
I don’t think I’ve shared how this journey began. A few years before Lovely Chicas came to life, I had the privilege of working for someone very special, Brenda Bauzo. She is an entrepreneur and successful businesswoman; I aspired to be like her. Brenda introduced me to the world of blogging and gifted me Gary Vaynerchuk’s book, “Crush It,” encouraging me to create my own blog. That was the spark that ignited my journey, leading me to dive deep into the World Wide Web and googling “how to start a blog.” Brenda is a strong woman of faith who always has given me unwavering support and protection like a mother. I will forever be grateful that God brought her into my life.
Brenda Bauzo and I in 2014 at a corporate event in Comfort Inn & Suites PR
It took time to launch this platform as I researched and prayed for the perfect name. As a perfectionist, I was determined to do it right. I also had to build the confidence to share my life with the world; I was terrified. I officially launched Lovely Chicas in 2012, and if there’s one regret I have, it’s taking too long to start because of fear and the pursuit of perfection.
So, my advice to anyone thinking about starting something new: don’t let fear and doubt hold you back. Take that leap of faith! If you stumble, just get back up and try again. There will never be a perfect moment, so embrace the journey as it unfolds. Most importantly forget about the opinions of others; people are going to judge and talk whether you do things right or not.
I never imagined the success that would follow the launch of Lovely Chicas. This platform has always been about empowering and inspiring women to love themselves unapologetically. Growing up with strict parents and in a legalistic religion, I often felt restricted to be myself. Lovely Chicas became my digital haven, a place where I could freely express myself and inspire others to do the same. I’ve shared my passion for fashion and my life story—the ups and downs, being as open, vulnerable and transparent as possible—because I truly believe my experiences could help others.
Here’s a fun fact about me: I’ve never been the kind of “pick me” girl who craves attention or dominates the room. In fact, such behaviors have always irked me. As an introvert, I thought I could remain behind the screen with Lovely Chicas, but as success came, I found myself thrust into the spotlight. I’ve had incredible opportunities—collaborations with brands, appearances on TV and radio, nominations for prestigious awards, features in magazines, billboards, opportunities to host events, interviews with celebrities as well as business ventures as a social media & digital strategist and influencer manager.
My life looks very different now than it did just a couple of years ago. The hacking of my main social platforms significantly impacted my career and left me feeling less active and connected. It was a devastating blow, and the emotional toll was immense. I vividly remember sitting on my grandmother’s bed in November 2022, tears streaming down my face as I battled to recover my platforms and reached out to Meta for help. In that moment of despair, God spoke to me, assuring me that I needed to trust Him and let Him take control.
In 2024 my grandmother’s health had also declined significantly, and she couldn’t be left alone not even to sleep. Either my aunt or I slept with her. Just a month before my grandmother passed away, I was sleeping beside her. That morning, as I woke up in the same spot where God had spoken to me in 2022, I found myself reflecting on my journey. For the first time, I didn’t feel anger over what I had lost; instead, I focused on the beautiful memories. I had an honest and heartfelt conversation with God.
I asked God why I had to lose my social platforms, and His voice was very clear: “I needed to have you hidden.” His words were crystal clear, and tears streamed down my face as everything became evident. I realized that there was a greater purpose behind it all.
Beyond the recognition or success, my greatest joy has always been the heartfelt messages from my readers, especially from those who tell me that my stories helped them through dark times, even helping some find their way out of depression or suicidal thoughts. Through this platform, I’ve accomplished so much, but my happiest moments have been when visiting women and children’s shelters or leading teen conferences on self-love.
I’m very grateful and honored for these past 13 years. Creating Lovely Chicas will always be my greatest pride and joy. Thank you all for allowing me to be a small part of your daily life and journey. Here’s to many more years of inspiration and connection!
As a devoted fan of K-pop and K-dramas, I can’t help but be excited about the growing popularity of Korean entertainment worldwide. A new addition to its success is the Netflix movie “K-Pop Demon Hunters.” This movie combines fun music, thrilling action, and a meaningful message and plot that resonates deeply with audiences. I also won’t confirm or deny that I have a crush on one of its main animated characters, Jinu.
In my opinion “K-pop Demon Hunters” is the best non-Christian movie that carries a Christian message. You might be confused, let me clarify. At its core, “K-Pop Demon Hunters” explores themes of battling negativity and unworthiness—issues that many people face in their daily lives. It’s a battle between light and darkness, good and bad.
The story follows Rumi, Zoey, and Mira, a K-pop girl group fighting off demons. The twist comes with the arrival of a K-pop boy band called the “Saja Boys,” who charm fans while competing with the girls for souls. They serve as a powerful reminder that looks can be deceiving—just because someone appears sweet and appealing doesn’t mean they are good. They’re a perfect example of a wolf in sheep’s clothing, and I, too, have fallen for that trap before.
The main villain, Gima, thrives on manipulation, whispering lies that make people doubt themselves. He fills our minds with thoughts like, “You’re not worthy,” “You’re unlovable,” and “You’re a failure.” I think we can all relate to those voices at times.
The characters in the movie are not just fighting off demons; they symbolize the internal struggles we all experience. The movie cleverly illustrates how the devil attacks us, trying to make us feel less than and ashamed. These negative thoughts can drown us in doubt and unworthiness, leading us away from our true potential.
One haunting song performed by the Saja Boys captures this perfectly: “You gave me your heart now I’m here for your soul. I’m the only one who loves your sins. Feel the way my voice gets underneath your skin.” In the Bible, 1 Peter 5:8 warns us, “Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walks about, seeking whom he may devour.” The enemy knows our weaknesses, but unlike God, he uses them against us with lies. God, however, whispers love and encouragement, reminding us that we are strong and capable in Him.
As portrayed in the movie, those negative voices lead you to hopelessness and we forget about God’s love. The characters in the movie like us are battling to accept themselves because they carry heavy guilt that burdens them. Contrary to what God wants as He desires for us to let it go and heal. On the other hand, Huntrix sings about light, hope even through their song “Golden” which is a total bop and has broken records being #1 on top music charts.
The Bible speaks about the importance of recognizing and overcoming evil influences. Just as the heroes in “K-Pop Demon Hunters” unite to fight against darkness, we are reminded that we are not alone in our struggles. We are encouraged to find strength in our faith, love, and community. Through Christ, we learn that we are valued and cherished, regardless of our shortcomings. The characters in “K-Pop Demon Hunters” reflect the journey of faith and personal growth. Each character learns to confront their fears and embrace their true selves, much like how God urges us to seek our identity in Him rather than in worldly standards.
“K-Pop Demon Hunters” is more than just an entertaining movie; it offers a powerful message that reminds us to resist negativity, embrace our worth, and stand strong against the forces that seek to diminish our light. As we watch the characters battle their demons, we are inspired to combat our own. Whenever you hear negative voices that Satan tries to put into your mind, go to Jesus. Don’t let past mistakes or lies consume you and diminish your faith.
No matter how far you think you’ve strayed from God, you’re always worthy of redemption. The only thing that can keep you from hearing God’s voice is allowing shame to take control. We are called to be a light, and God is the only one who loves us as we are.
So, the question is—what voice are you listening to? The voice of the God who loves you and lifts you up or the voice of the enemy that seeks to destroy you?
I know many of you have noticed my inconsistency with the blog this year, and I want to share a bit of my journey. This year has been a challenging one, as I’ve dedicated much of my time to healing and focusing on my mental health. Little did I know what 2025 would bring; just when I thought things couldn’t get tougher, they did.
If you’ve read my previous post or follow me on social media, you know that my beloved grandma passed away on May 30th. Processing her loss has been incredibly difficult. Some days, it feels like I’m trapped in a dream from which I just can’t wake up. Writing has always been my therapy—a way to express my feelings but I couldn’t find the strength to even write on the blog. This year I’ve faced profound sadness, and losing Abuela was the last thing I ever expected. Our bond was very unique and special; it was even more profound and meaningful these past years I had been living with her.
A week before she passed, my grandma suffered a stroke literally in front of me. I didn’t recognize it at first; she had been in such good spirits, healthy and full of life, always making jokes and singing. Then, all of a sudden, everything changed. Though she had faced similar circumstances before, she always bounced back.
This time was different. Her stroke was severe, and we were told she had only weeks to a month left. She was moved to hospice care at home, and it felt surreal.
Although my sister serves as our mother’s guardian and caregiver, she traveled to New York before Grandma passed away. She could sense I needed support, and she also wanted to be by Grandma’s side. I’m incredibly grateful for her presence during this difficult time and for my brother-in-law, who stepped in to care for Mom while Ashley was with me.
Grandma passed away hours after Ashley arrived. Before her death, my sister and I shared a beautiful moment together, praying and singing hymns to Grandma. It was a peaceful and precious time, a bittersweet farewell for her transition into the presence of God.
Navigating her death has been one of the hardest trials of my life. She was a tremendous part of my world, and I feel her absence in everything I do and every moment. The house feels empty and lonely without her. I never knew the depths of depression until 2025. There are days when I wonder if I could have done more—if I could have acted faster or if there was something I missed in that moment. The “what-ifs” haunt me.
Planning her funeral was one of the most challenging tasks I’ve ever faced. Yet, I pushed through my pain because I wanted to honor her and the incredible woman she was. The funeral service was held at a beautiful church that was the exact copy and image of the church my grandfather had founded and I grew up in. It was the perfect setting. The service turned into a beautiful celebration of grandmas life, surrounded by her children and grandchildren. Many came to honor abuela. She was very loved. My sister Ashley and I sang a song together—our voices united once more, we hadn’t sung in a church setting in many years. In our youth, there were countless times when Grandma would come to church just to hear us sing, and that memory stays with us, filling our hearts with love and gratitude.
We laid her to rest in Puerto Rico, exactly as she always wished.
Even though my heart aches with every passing day, I remind myself that she lived a long, fulfilling life—94 beautiful years. I often think about how I had just gifted her a betta fish about 2 months before she left us as an early birthday surprise.
Alongside the stroke, my grandma fought against Alzheimer’s. Witnessing her struggle with memory loss was heartbreaking. This battle feels all too familiar; years ago, I cared for my aunt who had dementia, and now my mother faces challenges with both dementia and Alzheimer’s. It is devastating to see how these diseases impact the lives of our loved ones and the toll it takes on us as caregivers.
Though the pain is heavy, I carry her memory with me every day, and I strive to honor her legacy through love, resilience, hope and mostly by keeping her sense of humor alive. Te amo abuela.
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