Charlene Gonzalez

When it’s 60 degrees in the winter you better be sure I’m going to take advantage so, I decided to rock my new favorite “Printed Ruched Midi dress” from A’Gaci. I love dresses! They are my favorite wardrobe staple. Dresses are classy, feminine, versatile and very flattering.

This A’gaci dress is beyond beautiful and elegant, the printed design is a work of art. It’s figure hugging and has a sexy side slit and it surely turns heads. This look requires minimal accessorizing and can be worn with a pair of strappy heels. This dress is a showstopper. If you’re crushing on this look as much as I am you can get the dress here: A’Gaci

Life Update: I’m still readjusting to the winter weather. I’ve become an official New Yorker who hibernates in the winter. I can’t wait for Spring; Rockland County is so beautiful. There’s so much to see, do and admire. I have been loving spending quality time with my grandma. Even though she’s 91 and very ill she’s always in a good mood constantly joking around.

Ok, I have to ask. Who other than me is obsessed with Becky G and Karol G’s new song “Mamii”? That song is an anthem and I have it on repeat. I think every woman has an ex or two they dedicate it too.

Just when you run out of things to watch on Netflix, they launch a new production that hooks and shocks you. If you haven’t seen the “Tinder Swindler” it’s a must see! I still can’t believe everything that man has done and how get got away with it all. If you watched it let me know what you thought.

Love you all so much. Until next time.

Be Lovely, Be You

Charlene Gonzalez

By Charlene Gonzalez

Embracing My Inner Snow Queen

January 26, 2022March 22, 2022

Since I’ve moved to NY, I’ve been constantly asked how I’m surviving with the cold weather. Yeah, I know it’s a drastic change from Puerto Rico’s tropical summer weather all year long but there nothing better than experiencing the transitioning seasons.

One mistake I made coming to New York was underestimating the weather by not bringing the right clothes, so I’ve had to revamp my wardrobe. During the winter wearing multiple layers is mandatory but it’s a problem when you run out of cute outfits.

Lately, I’ve been more about cozy and warm outfits but occasionally I torture myself and wear non- winter friendly looks like this cut-out bodycon dress. Just because it’s freezing out, doesn’t mean I have to give up on style. Believe me if I survived being Pentecostal for half my life by wearing skirts all the time in below zero weather, I can survive anything.

Winter is the only time during the year that you can wear fur (faux, of course). I’ve been embracing faux fur to keep me warm. Fur can be worn with just about anything to give your outfit a majorly luxe upgrade and this beige fur coat sure does looks very luxurious.

I love boots! Great winter style really comes down to a good pair of boots. Got myself a fab pair of over-the-knee beauties and had to show them off by pairing them with this short dress.

This look proves that even during winter great style is very possible. Being in New York has me embracing my inner snow queen and becoming the winter fashionista I was born to be!

Be Lovely, Be You

Charlene Gonzalez

By Charlene Gonzalez

2022: Life Changing Decisions

January 18, 2022March 22, 2022

This is officially my first post of 2022 and It’s been a bit overdue but there’s a reason. First, I’ve been busy and honestly I didn’t know how to break the news. I was determined to make 2022 the best year and made a life changing decision. I refused to continue living through another year sabotaged by fear, thinking about what if, holding onto a life I no longer wanted, so I made the decision to relocate back to New York. Yes, after 16 years of living in Puerto Rico I decided to move back to my hometown in Rockland, NY.

I moved to Puerto Rico when I was 19 almost 20 with my family. I had just begun college in NY and the change was drastic. It was never easy for this gringa to get use to Puerto Rico’s lifestyle. I’m so thankful for everything I gained in Puerto Rico….it’s where I got the courage to be myself, fight for my dreams and found my life purpose.

Moving back to NY has been a decision I’ve considered for many years but put it off for reasons I shouldn’t including people giving me their negative thoughts about it. Piece of advice; never let anyone’s negative vibes influence decisions you want to make. Like many, I’m in the search for new opportunities and growth so I know I had to make the decision. My mission has always been to inspire and empower so I made the decision to go after the life of my dreams.

Living a purposeful life has been my mission. I’m determined to try more, try differently, try harder, try passionately, try definitively, try often because I can, and no one has the right to stop me just because trying is a risk and sounds redundant if it doesn’t result in complete success. There’s no greater feeling than having self-peace with what I have accomplished and the person I am at the end of each day! No matter my decisions, my goal will be to have a clean conscience about the way I have handled my life, business and my relationships. Growing a following or bank account are great but not as satisfying as growing your legacy. Achieving goals is amazing but so are the ones we didn’t because at least we took a risk and tried. If we never try, we won’t be successful at anything.

Be Lovely, Be You

Charlene Gonzalez

By Charlene Gonzalez

2021 Reflection

December 31, 2021March 22, 2022

After everything the world has encountered, we are all very blessed to say goodbye to 2021 and welcome another new year. If you are reading this post, I want you to take a moment to be grateful to be alive because unfortunately many aren’t with us today.

I’m very happy to spend the end of 2021 and beginning of 2022 in Rockland, New York where I was born and raised. It’s been a very peaceful and reflecting time. I actually visited Emeline park, a cute park my parents would bring my sister and I when we were kids. This small magical place facing the Hudson River was the perfect spot to reflect on 2021 and set my goals for 2022.

2021 has been a year to remember. Though I’ve had my struggles like everyone else, I’ve had more great moments than bad. It has been the hardest but best year. This year I learned to put myself before all and canceled out all fears. I took tons of risks, traveled more, laughed, cried, got my first tattoos, enjoyed every moment and made life changing decisions.

2021, thank you for making me a better and stronger person. Thank you for every moment that guided me transcend. Thankyou for the moments that allowed me to shine bright and share my light with the world. Thank you for every person that touched my soul or passed through my life. Thank you for every sunrise and sunset. Thank you for every moment of life.

As the covid virus or any other circumstance took more lives in 2021, I learned that there are no guarantees in life, so live your best life. Enjoy what you have and be grateful for what is good in your life. Love the people around you and remember that small kind actions make a huge difference in people’s lives.

As we welcome a new year I want to wish you all love, health, happiness and many abundant blessings. Thank you all for your constant support and kindness. Because of you all every year I continue to accomplish my dreams.

Be Lovely, Be You

Charlene Gonzalez

By Charlene Gonzalez

Christmas in New York

December 25, 2021March 15, 2022

There’s nothing I wanted more this year than to spend Christmas in New York. So, as a birthday gift to myself I made the travel arrangements and I’m here. In addition, I’m planning on moving here (or Florida) so I wanted to make sure I could take the winter weather. One of my biggest wishes was to see snow and on Christmas Eve morning God gifted me with a magical winter wonderland.

This Christmas has been the most special ever. Christmases at grandmas house have always been a memorable tradition and this year it was beyond amazing. Besides seeing family I hadn’t seen in years, I had the best Christmas meal and the family games were beyond fun. Nothing beats spending Christmas with family members who are as festive and fun as me. Family is everything, I am always and forever grateful for mine.

Christmas is my favorite holiday and one I cherish deeply. If, I’m honest its been years since I’ve had a joyful Christmas where I didn’t have to fake my happiness. Christmas in PR is good but nothings better than Christmas in New York. I greatly missed Christmas with grandma. My grandma is 91 and having the opportunity to spend this Christmas with her has been a blessing. I hope I can spend many more with her.

I want to take this opportunity to wish everyone a very Merry Christmas. Sending you all love and light, may this holiday be full of peace and joy.

Be Lovely, Be You

Charlene Gonzalez

By Charlene Gonzalez

Cheers to 36!

December 8, 2021December 9, 2021

Happy birthday to me! Once again, I am blessed to celebrate another year of life. Now I welcome chapter 36 of my epic journey. Birthdays always make me reflect on life. There’s so much I can say about everything I’ve experienced and learned this past year. In my teens I use believe that in my 30s I’d have life figured out, but I don’t and I’m absolutely ok with that. I’ve come to terms with the fact that no one has life figured out. It’s about living it to the fullest and embracing everything about your story.

I used to have specific plans for my life which have turned out completely opposite from what I believed. Getting older would stress me because I felt as if I was behind from accomplishing my goals. As I got older, I truly realized that age is just a number. There is no specific timeline and things happen when they must.

Year 35 taught me to slow down and consider the things that are of real importance to me in my life. Though I have so much more to accomplish and sometimes may feel my goals are so far away I am immensely proud of myself. I’ve come a long way rising like a goddess through the challenges. Believing in myself and abilities have been my guide. Being authentic and unapologetically me will always be my inspiration. I’m embracing my new age with more wisdom, strength and passion for life. I know this new year of life will bring a lot of positive changes and blessings as I head into a new direction. I’m going into year 36 with a hopeful outlook on what this year will bring. Cheers to 36! Thank you for celebrating another trip around the sun with me!

Be Lovely, Be You

Charlene Gonzalez