As a teenager I use to believe that my 20’s would be my favorite decade, but now in my 30’s its when I’m actually having the best time of my life. I feel so much better in my 30’s than I did in my 20’s. I feel more powerful, free, creative, fearless and even sexier. I underwent tremendous changes this year. Mindless insignificant things don’t worry me anymore. I’m truly living every moment to the fullest.
Ugh and no drama for me! I’ve reduced my circle of friends to a small intimate group of amazing people. I got rid of the toxic people in my life.
This year I grew so much as a person. I even became more determined and motivated. Every goal I set for myself I accomplished.
A few days ago I received a message through snapchat, which actually made me cry tears of joy. A follower told me…. “No matter what you go through, you are always so happy and smiling”. Those who follow me on snapchat know me very well because I tend to share many personal things about my life there. There is one very special thing I learned this year that I must share; being happy is a choice you have to make. My life is very far from perfect. There are many things I deal with everyday. I know what it is to be in a very unhappy place in life. I know what misery and depression are too very well. That’s not a life I wanted to live. I personally made the choice that no matter what I’ve been through or am going through nothing would take my happiness away. I’ve become determined to be the happiest I can be no matter what. All the crap I’ve been through in life are lessons learned. Now in my 30’s I’m enjoying the benefits of my bad experiences. I’ve been through it all so my judgment levels are top notch so no drama or bad vibes will get to me. I’m living life for ME and I don’t care what anyone thinks or has to say about me.
I’m going to say something which I know is going to sound super cliché but I know this new year I’ve been given is going to be my year! I’m going to make every single moment count! I’m in total control of my life. Inspiration fuels and pushes me to keep going.
To my amazing follower’s thank you all for always reading my random posts. I truly hope that my blog and style inspire you because it’s truly my purpose with Lovely Chicas. Thank you for being the main reason behind the amazing blessings and opportunities I’ve received this year. With your support none of this would be possible.
Happy Birthday to me! I’m older but I feel great!
Be You, Be Lovely
Charlene Gonzalez
My Birthday look: Rose Gold Sequined Set-Sirens / Lace-up Heel-Steve Madden / Earings-A’GACI
Makeup up: Lipstick-Urban Decay Disturbed / Eyeshadow-Urban Decay Liquid Moondust / Foundation- Urban Decay Naked Weightless Ultra Definition Shade 5.0 / Powder- Urban Decay Ultra Definition Pressed Finishing Powder / Bronzer, Highlighter, Blush- Urban DecayNaked Flushes (Streak) / Concealer- Urban Decay Naked Skin Complete Coverage Concealer (Light)
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