As I stand on the threshold of 39, I won’t lie — the excitement wasn’t exactly bubbling over. In fact, I can vividly recall feeling just as apprehensive when I turned 29. There’s something about these transitional years, these “bridge years,” that can feel daunting. But I’ve learned that once you close that chapter and step into the next decade, things often start to click into place. That was certainly my experience when I turned 30.
In preparing to write this post, I found myself diving into the reflections of other women who had reached this milestone. I’ll be honest — it stirred up some feelings. Many of them are married, with families, and I couldn’t help but feel a bit of sadness that my journey looks different. But then, like a gentle nudge of grace I got a reality check and a powerful realization: my life is uniquely mine, crafted with purpose, and my path is not meant to mirror anyone else’s. Each twist and turn is a part of a divine design, and I’m learning to trust that.
Oh, what a journey it has been! I’ve lived so many lives within this one, navigating through major changes and transitions that have shaped who I am today. My 30s have been a canvas of exploration, allowing me to discover what truly resonates with my soul — what brings me joy, what drains me, and the spaces where I feel most safe, comfortable, and empowered. I’ve come to appreciate the preciousness of my time, energy, and attention, realizing how vital it is to invest in what uplifts me.
I’m incredibly grateful for the circle of support I’ve cultivated around me. I’ve surrounded myself with people who love, respect, celebrate, and inspire me. When I look into the mirror, I see someone I genuinely love. The self-critical voices that once clouded my mind in my 20s and early 30s have transformed into a chorus of encouragement. In a world that often feels unpredictable, I’ve found it easier to tap into a deep sense of inner peace.
As I step into this final year of my 30s, I feel a profound sense of gratitude and calm wash over me. Turning 39 feels like a significant turning point, filled with potential and promise. I have plans, dreams, and aspirations for this next chapter, and no matter what challenges lie ahead or unexpected twists life presents, I know that I will always make it through.
One of the most important lessons I’ve learned in the past year is the value of cherishing each moment. Life is delicate and unpredictable; it can change in an instant. I’m thankful for the growth I’ve experienced, for the resilience I’ve built amidst life’s challenges. Each day is an opportunity to become a better version of myself, and I’m excited for what lies ahead.
Here comes a new year filled with new achievements, new adventures, and new possibilities. Happy birthday to me! It’s a privilege to celebrate another year of life, embracing good health, peace, and the chance to accomplish great things.
I’m overwhelmed with gratitude for my blessings and hopeful for the future. Here’s to a wonderful birthday and the journey ahead as I close this chapter and live this last year in my 30s. Trusting in God’s plan, I am ready for whatever comes next even a major plot twist.
Be Lovely, Be You
Charlene Gonzalez
