I’m officially a New Yorker, again. If you’ve been keeping up with my blog, you know that for the past 16 years I had been living in Puerto Rico but in January 2022 I decided to move back to my hometown in New York.
Moving was the hardest decision of my life though I’m more than confident of the decision I made. I lived my life in PR since 19 to 36 years old. That’s a lifetime of experiences. Though, since January I had been living in New York for a year I had not gone back to Puerto Rico to finish the moving process which included shipping my belongings and selling my car. Honestly, I was truly prolonging this process because its not like I’m moving to another state, I’m literally moving across the ocean. I was so worried about everything I had to do and pack. I owned a lot. I’m a home décor and fashion lover not to mention the 10 years of being a blogger and influencer in which I worked with hundreds of brands and was constantly gifted products. I literally had 3 full closets of clothes, over 130 pairs of shoes in addition to tons of beauty and makeup products. My solution was to donate 75% of my belongings. I’m still surprised on how I accomplished it but I managed to pack my life into 6 boxes.
The moving process was bittersweet, so many emotions were involved. Not to mention saying goodbye to family and friends. Many don’t know because I’ve always loved to keep my life private but even while having a busy career in blogging and social media, for many years I also helped care for an aunt who was very sick. Saying bye and closing that chapter was very hard but it was time to fully focus on my life and goals.
As the flight took off on my way back to New York I saw Puerto Rico grow smaller in the distance behind. I was overwhelmed with so many emotions and couldn’t help cry leaving behind 16 years of memories, experiences and many loved ones. While the tears blurred my eyes all I could do was feel grateful. Grateful for every good and bad experience that has made me the strong and powerful woman I am today. Though life has led me through a new path and I’m starting from zero I’m not scared because God id in control. This new chapter of my life is fully guided by God.
Thank you, Puerto Rico, for all the blessings you gave me. Hasta luego mi isla preciosa.
Be Lovely, Be You
Charlene Gonzalez
