Self-love has become a viral subject….it seems everyone talks about it. Personally, I’ve always been an advocate for self-love because its has been key to being a better person. Honestly, when it comes to self-love it’s harder said than done. It’s not something that happens overnight. It took me years to fully love and accept myself. Self- love is a journey, and we must commit to practices that help nourish that love every day. Working on loving ourselves is essential so that we can overcome our limiting thoughts and live a life that truly shines. Practicing self-love allows you to be good to yourself and in the process become a better human being.
First thing to understand and internalize is that God loves you and no one will ever love you like He does. He doesn’t care who you are, what you’ve done or accomplished. He loves everything about you. Allowing God to love you and opening your heart to His love is essential in your self-love journey. God wants you to love yourself. Loving yourself does not mean you’re narcissistic. God does not want us to go through our lives filled with hate, anger, disappointment, low-self-esteem, or insecurities.
Another important point is to eliminate the idea that you have to be perfect. Perfection is overrated, besides NOBODY is perfect. Ditching the idea of perfection is very important in the practice of self-love. Also, understand that society has built unrealistic expectations and standards. You are unique and irreplaceable don’t ever compare yourself to anyone else.
Stop being so tough on yourself. Sometimes we are our own worst enemy. We all have an interior critic that wants to make use feel worthless and insecure. This even prevents us from living up to our potential and fulfilling our purpose.
In your self- love journey think about the purposeful life God wants you to live where no shades of self-hatred exist. In your journey always remember that you are important and very loved.
Be Lovely, Be You
Charlene Gonzalez
