All Posts By Charlene Gonzalez

 Finding Blessings in Unplugging: My Journey of Self-Discovery

Last year on this very date, I woke up to a devastating realization – my personal and Lovely Chicas social media accounts had been hacked. It was a heart-wrenching experience to witness over 15 years of hard work vanish into thin air, and despite my best efforts, I was unable to recover any of it. My social media presence had become a significant source of income for me, with numerous brand deals and contracts on the verge of being signed.

In the midst of the anguish and despair, a glimmer of hope emerged within me. I firmly believed that everything would eventually be alright because I had faith in God’s control over my life. Throughout my journey, I have always been fiercely independent and self-made. Nothing has ever been handed to me on a silver platter. I have poured my heart and soul into my work, often succumbing to the pressures of social media and striving to meet its ever-increasing demands.

Unplugging from social media for a while became a blessing in disguise. It provided me with the much-needed mental break that I didn’t even realize I needed. Stepping away from the constant pressure and demands of social media allowed me to reconnect with myself and find peace within. It was during this time that I learned to appreciate genuine relationships, discovered who my real friends were, and embraced the importance of living in the moment. Most importantly, this experience strengthened my faith and taught me to fully depend on God.

A Mental Break: Disconnecting from social media was a transformative experience that allowed me to prioritize my mental well-being. It provided me with the space to reflect, recharge, and rediscover myself. Without the constant noise and comparison that social media brings, I was able to find peace and clarity. I engaged in activities that brought me joy, such as reading, spending time in nature, and pursuing hobbies that had taken a backseat in my busy online life. This mental break became a catalyst for personal growth and self-discovery.

Appreciating Genuine Relationships: One of the most valuable lessons I learned during this process was the true worth of genuine relationships. Without the constant distraction of social media, I was able to focus on nurturing and appreciating the connections that truly mattered. I discovered the joy of spending quality time with loved ones, engaging in meaningful conversations, and creating lasting memories. These genuine relationships became my support system during the difficult time of losing my online presence. Their unwavering support and love reminded me of the importance of real connections in a world dominated by virtual interactions.

Discovering True Friends: The experience of losing social media and my immense following also revealed who my real friends were. It became evident that some individuals had only been around for personal gain or to ride the wave of my success. However, amidst the chaos, I discovered a handful of friends who stood by me, offering their unwavering support and encouragement. These true friends proved that their loyalty extended beyond the virtual realm. Through this process, I learned the importance of surrounding myself with people who genuinely care about me, rather than those who simply use me for their own benefit.

Living in the Moment: Not consistently being on social media allowed me to truly live in the moment. Instead of constantly documenting and sharing every aspect of my life, I learned to savor and appreciate the present. I became more mindful of my surroundings, embracing the beauty of everyday moments that I had previously overlooked. This newfound presence brought a sense of peace and contentment that I had been missing in my online-driven life. It reminded me to cherish the simple joys and keep certain aspects of my life private, allowing me to maintain a sense of authenticity and personal fulfillment.

Fully Depending on God: Throughout this journey, I learned to fully depend on God. Losing my social media presence was a humbling experience that reminded me of the transient nature of worldly success. It taught me to surrender control and trust in God’s plan for my life. In moments of despair and uncertainty, I turned to prayer and found solace in my faith. I realized that my worth and identity were not tied to social media metrics or external validation, but rather in my relationship with God and the love He has for me.

Surprisingly, unplugging from social media became a transformative experience that brought numerous blessings into my life. This journey strengthened my faith and taught me to fully depend on God. As I move forward, I am grateful for the lessons learned and the newfound sense of balance, authenticity, and faith in my life. I have faith that one day my social platforms will be restored but it will be all for God’s glory.

Be Lovely, Be You

Charlene Gonzalez

Remembering Matthew Perry: A Devastating Loss for Friends Fans

On October 28th, the Friends fandom was hit with heartbreaking news – the passing of Matthew Perry. As a devoted fan of the sitcom, I was left in shock. Chandler Bing, portrayed by Perry, had become my favorite character, thanks to his vibrant personality and unmatched sense of humor. In this blog post, I want to share my personal journey as a Friends fan and how the show played a significant role in my life.

Like many others, I had heard about Friends for years but never felt compelled to watch it. I have a tendency to resist anything that becomes popular in pop-culture, but inevitably, I find myself giving in and becoming a die-hard fan. This pattern has repeated itself with various trends, such as k-pop and kdramas. Initially, I tried my best to avoid these phenomena, but once I finally gave in and gave them a chance, I quickly became hooked. So, during the pandemic, when I was battling depression, I decided to give it a chance. Little did I know that this decision would change my life. With my sister’s persistent encouragement, I finally gave in and embarked on a binge-watching journey through all ten seasons of Friends.

To my surprise, Friends became more than just a source of entertainment. It became my escape from the harsh realities of the world. The show’s witty humor, relatable characters, and heartwarming storylines provided a much-needed respite from my own struggles. Each episode brought a smile to my face and, at times, even made me burst into laughter, lifting my spirits and helping me find joy during a difficult period.

Among the six beloved friends, Chandler Bing stood out for me. Matthew Perry’s portrayal of this sarcastic yet lovable character was nothing short of brilliant. Chandler’s quick wit, impeccable comedic timing, and his ability to mask his vulnerability resonated with me on a deeper level. Perry’s performance brought Chandler to life, making him a fan-favorite and an integral part of the show’s success.

Matthew Perry’s untimely passing has left a void in the hearts of Friends fans worldwide. His talent, charisma, and dedication to his craft were evident in every scene he graced. Perry’s ability to make us laugh, cry, and feel a genuine connection with his character is a testament to his exceptional acting skills. His portrayal of Chandler Bing will forever be etched in our memories, reminding us of the joy he brought to our lives.


While Matthew Perry may no longer be with us, his legacy as Chandler Bing lives on. Friends continues to captivate new generations, and Chandler’s iconic one-liners and unforgettable moments will continue to bring laughter and happiness to countless viewers. As fans, we can honor Perry’s memory by cherishing the joy he brought us through his portrayal of Chandler and by celebrating the timeless brilliance of Friends. As we mourn his passing, let us remember the impact he had on our lives and the legacy he leaves behind. Matthew Perry will forever be remembered as the talented actor who brought Chandler Bing to life, reminding us of the power of laughter and the enduring magic of Friends.

Be You, Be Lovely

Charlene Gonzalez

Embracing the Magic of Fall in New York City: A Day of Exploration in Bryant Park, New York Library, K-Town, and Teso Life

As the crisp autumn breeze sweeps through the bustling streets of New York City, there’s an undeniable sense of magic in the air. Fall is the perfect time to immerse yourself in the vibrant energy of the city and indulge in its diverse offerings. Join me on a delightful journey as we spend a day exploring the enchanting Bryant Park, savoring the flavors of Korean cuisine in K-Town, and discovering hidden treasures at the Asian lifestyle store, Teso Life.

1. Bryant Park: A Haven of Tranquility Amidst the Urban Jungle

Our adventure begins in the heart of Manhattan, where Bryant Park awaits with its picturesque beauty. As we step into this urban oasis, we are greeted by a kaleidoscope of autumn colors. Taking a leisurely stroll through the park, marveling at the serene atmosphere. I found a cozy spot on one of the park’s iconic green chairs and immersed myself into the ambiance.

2. New York Public Library: Carrie Bradshaw and Big’s “almost” Wedding Venue

Stepping into the iconic New York Public Library in NYC, I couldn’t help but feel a sense of excitement and nostalgia. This magnificent Beaux-Arts building holds a special place in the hearts of many, especially fans of the beloved TV series, Sex and the City. It was here, in the grandeur of the library’s stunning halls, that Carrie Bradshaw was set to marry Mr. Big. The library’s timeless beauty and rich history make it a must-visit destination for any lover of literature, architecture, and, of course, the iconic moments that have unfolded within its walls.


3. K-Town: A Gastronomic Delight for the Senses

Next, I ventured into the vibrant neighborhood of Koreatown, where the tantalizing aroma of Korean cuisine thrives. Numerous restaurants line the streets, and you can be sure they’ll indulge your taste buds in a culinary adventure. From sizzling Korean BBQ to comforting bowls of bibimbap, kimchi or ramen the options are endless. My favorite spot if Food Gallery 32, a unique food court that offers a variety of tasty options where the flavors transport you to the bustling streets of Seoul, right in the heart of New York City.


4. Teso Life: Unveiling the Essence of Asian Lifestyle

After satisfying my appetite, I made my way to Teso Life, a hidden gem nestled in the city’s vibrant K-Town. Step into this captivating store and be transported to a world of Asian aesthetics and culture. Browsing through an exquisite collection of home decor, fashion, beauty products, snacks and unique gifts sourced from various Asian countries especially Japan.

As the day draws to a close and it’s time to head back home to Rockland County, I can’t help but get saddened. New York City has so much beauty and diversity to offer, especially during the fall and holiday season. From the tranquility of Bryant Park to the culinary delights of K-Town and the cultural treasures of Teso Life, my journey has been a celebration of the city’s vibrant spirit. Embrace the magic of fall in New York City and let it inspire you to explore, indulge, and discover the hidden gems that await around every corner.

Be you, Be Lovely

Charlene Gonzalez

A Tropical Escape to Puerto Rico

Recently, I had the pleasure of visiting Puerto Rico, a place I once called home for over 16 years. The allure of the tropical beach weather and the opportunity to indulge in my favorite places and foods drew me back to “The Isla Del Encanto”. During my trip, I not only soaked up on some much-needed vitamin D at the beach but also spent quality time with family and friends, creating unforgettable memories. And of course, I couldn’t resist indulging in the mouthwatering culinary delights that Puerto Rico has to offer. Join me as I take you on a journey through some of my favorite food spots on this tropical escape.


El Churry: A Hidden Gem:
One of my absolute favorite spots is El Churry, a food truck that serves the most delicious “tripletas” I’ve ever tasted. The combination of juicy meats, flavorful sauces, and fresh ingredients creates a culinary experience like no other. El Churry is a must-visit for anyone looking to satisfy their cravings for a mouthwatering sandwich.

La Taquiza: A Taste of Puerto Rican Fusion:
For the best mojitos and a unique twist on traditional Puerto Rican cuisine, La Taquiza is the place to be. Their “serenata de bacalao” with “majado de malanga” is a personal favorite of mine. The blend of flavors and textures in this dish is simply divine. Pair it with one of their refreshing mojitos, and you have a match made in culinary heaven.



Unidos Korean BBQ and Ramen House:
During my trip, I decided to venture into one of my favorite culinary territories, Korean food.  So, I visited Unidos Korean BBQ and Ramen House for the first time…I never even knew they existed in Puerto Rico.  The experience was nothing short of amazing. The attentive service and delectable food left me craving for more. I was particularly impressed by their Korean wine, which added a delightful twist to the meal. This place is a must-visit for those seeking a fusion of flavors and a memorable dining experience.



Café Sinai: A Breakfast Haven:
To start my days off right, I made sure to visit Sinai Baja in Toa Baja for breakfast. Toa Baja was the town I use to call home and this charming spot quickly became a favorite, and I even developed a close bond with the owner. Every item on the menu is a delight, but their “maizena” holds a special place in my heart. It brings back fond memories of my childhood when my mom would make it for me. The warm and comforting flavors of this dish are simply unmatched.



Hera Tea: A Taste of Asia in Puerto Rico:
For those craving Asian-styled teas, Hera Tea is a must-visit. This hidden gem offers a wide variety of teas. The aromatic blends and unique flavors are a true delight for the senses. Whether you’re a tea connoisseur or simply looking to try something new, Hera Tea is the perfect spot to satisfy your cravings.



SR Paleta: A Tropical Treat:
No trip to Puerto Rico would be complete without indulging in the refreshing delights of SR Paleta. Their tropical popsicles are a true taste of paradise. From exotic fruit flavors to creamy delights, these popsicles are the perfect treat to beat the heat and satisfy your sweet tooth.


My tropical escape to Puerto Rico was a culinary adventure filled with unforgettable flavors and cherished memories. From the mouthwatering tripletas at El Churry to the fusion delights at Unidos Korean BBQ and Ramen House, Puerto Rico’s food scene never fails to impress.  Of course, I also had lots of mofongo, stuffed avocados and pan sobao. Whether you’re a food enthusiast or simply looking to indulge in the vibrant flavors of the island, Puerto Rico is a culinary paradise that will leave you craving for more.

Be Lovely, Be You

Charlene Gonzalez

Life in NY: Friends Experience

I’m guilty of being a latecomer to the Friends fandom. If there’s something I regret in life is assuming I won’t like or do something and holding on to that belief has held me back from enjoying earlier on things I love today like pizza with pineapple, K-Dramas, K-pop, matcha, veggies, anime and Friends. My life lesson learned….NEVER SAY NEVER!

Here’s a little backstory; I knew Friends was a hit sitcom and I would watch minimal parts of an episode here and there but for some reason I could never give in to the phenomenon. I would always stay away from watching the show. My sister had been a fan and would constantly urge me to watch the show because she knew I’d fall in love. It wasn’t until 2020 during the pandemic, thanks to the endless free time, that I gave in and began to binge watch Friends.

As we know, the pandemic was a very difficult and depressing time which paused our lives from our “normal” routines.  Our lives were shaken, and everything was halted. For me as an active successful blogger and content creator it really affected me. Everything was canceled and being a single independent woman, the drastic change caused me a lot of anxiety and depression.

As I struggled to reinvent myself and get use to the change, I found myself having too much spare time so besides the extreme organizing and decluttering of my home, starting new projects and running out of shows to stream I gave into my sister’s request and began to watch Friends.

I literally watched all 10 seasons and 236 episodes back-to-back non-stop and immediately became obsessed. I may be exaggerating but I can say watching the show during the pandemic was life changing; it even got me out of depression. Till’ this day if I ever feel down, I make sure to pray to God and watch Friends.

Friends is so entertaining and hilarious it puts me in the best of moods. Through K-drama’s and Friends I’ve discovered a sense of escapism from stress.

So, as a fan of the show I had been really looking forward to visiting the Friends Experience in NYC. If your clueless to what The Friends Experience is its basically an exhibit showcasing set recreations, photo ops, costumes and props from the show. It’s an “OH! MY! GAWD!” incredibly memorable experience where you get to, enjoy iconic Friends scenes like: “Pivot!”, the apartments, the famous orange sofa, Central Perk and more! If you’re a Friends fan, I definitely recommend you go and enjoy this iconic experience.

Charlene Gonzalez

Be You, Be Lovely

Blogiversary: Reflecting On 11 Years

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Here we are celebrating yet another blogiversary and I couldn’t feel more blessed for these past 11 years. Every anniversary I like to reflect on everything I’ve accomplished. This blog has been the best experience of my life and it has offered opportunities I used to only dream of. When I first launched Lovely Chicas my goal and purpose was clear, I wanted a platform where I could be myself, inspire and motivate others. Through my love for fashion and beauty I wanted to share outfits in a creative way while spreading a message of self-love and motivation. In a world where superficiality reigned, I wanted to be an authentic voice. My goal was for women to love themselves just as they are; fashion has nothing to do with the style, labels, or your physical appearance, it’s about expressing and feeling good about yourself.

Have these past 11 years been easy? Of course not! No one can imagine the struggles and the times that I’ve wanted to give up. I began this blog while being a full-time college student, working full-time, living on my own and struggling to survive but I hustled through.  I always find myself facing a new struggle, but I know that the purpose God has given me through Lovely Chicas is bigger than me. Nothing is ever easy, and I can assure you that the blessings have been greater. Though I’ve accomplished a lot from being nominated for many awards, working with over 100 brands, being on magazine covers, billboards, TV and radio, my greatest satisfaction and achievement has been to inspire lives. The best moment of my entire blogging and influencer journey will always be when a follower reached out to tell me that they didn’t commit suicide because of a personal life story I shared. Even all the messages I receive from people telling me they’ve been motivated to follow their goals makes all this worth it.

Even though I may have lost my social media accounts I have not lost the essence or purpose of Lovely Chicas. No matter the adversities I will never give up, that phrase does not exist in my vocabulary. I’m unstoppable and fully committed to my purpose.

I wanted to share a few life lessons I’ve learned these past 11 years: 

-Face your fears and step out of your comfort zone. Trust me you’ll be surprised at what you’ll achieve. 

-Life is short and time is the one thing we can’t replenish so live your life intentionally and with purpose. 

-Don’t compare yourself to others. We all have a unique purpose and different timelines in life. 

-Don’t live up to other’s expectations. Focus on your own values and goals. 

-Everything will work out, just trust God. 

-Fame, money, material possessions, social media followers, relationships and success will NEVER give you real happiness or peace. They are momentary pleasures that you can easily loose. Real love, hope and peace only comes from God. 

On another note, though I haven’t been very consistent on the blog as I should I promise that I’m working on a project that will make up for it. It’s a passion project. I’m putting all my love and dedication into just like I did with this blog. The best part is that it’s inspired by God just like Lovely Chicas so I can 100% assure you all it’s going to be good.  

Lastly, I want to thank everyone who has supported me throughout the years. Your constant love and support have been essential in making Lovely Chicas successful and for that I am very grateful. I love you all very much!

Be Lovely, Be You

Charlene Gonzalez