Charlene Gonzalez

Have you finished your Christmas shopping yet? Not me! I’ve been to tons of stores, have made many purchases but when I check my Christmas list I’ve come to realize that everything I bought was for me! Yes I’m horrible I know. I still have a lot more Christmas shopping to do and this year I did what I’m ever accustomed to do…….leave everything for the last minute. Christmas shopping can be so stressful but I’ve made some really great purchases. In this post I wanted to share a few stress free Christmas shopping tips and of course details of this denim on denim outfit I wore on a recent shopping spree.

I know I’ve said this so many times before but the best part about living in Puerto Rico is wearing shorts in winter! I truly do miss Christmas in New York but I don’t miss the below 0 weather where my nose hairs would freeze and my toes would numb. In Puerto Rico I have the benefit of accomplishing all of my Christmas shopping wearing denim shorts and cute booties.

So, I’ve put together a few simple Christmas shopping tips to help you avoid stress this holiday season.

Make a List:
Write down everyone you’ll be gifting and include various gift ideas for each person.

Start Early:
Waiting for the last minute is a huge mistake! It’s also a very good idea to wake up early and be at the mall a few minutes before it opens to avoid all the hassle of finding a parking spot or waiting on endless lines to purchase your gifts.

Shop Online:
If you hate the stress of shopping at the mall during the holidays shopping online is the best option for you. Plus there are many online sales and great coupon codes. If you haven’t yet register an account on EBATES (www.ebates.com ) where you can get up to 40% cash back on your online purchase and you’ll find tons of discounts and promo codes.

I truly hope these tips are of some help to you and that you survive this holiday shopping season without going crazy or breaking your bank.

Be you, Be Lovely
Charlene Gonzalez

Outfit Details: Purse-Kipling Visit Kipling-usa.com!/ Blouse-A’GACI / Shorts-American Eagle / Booties-Burlington

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Birthday Babe

December 8, 2016

As a teenager I use to believe that my 20’s would be my favorite decade, but now in my 30’s its when I’m actually having the best time of my life. I feel so much better in my 30’s than I did in my 20’s. I feel more powerful, free, creative, fearless and even sexier. I underwent tremendous changes this year. Mindless insignificant things don’t worry me anymore. I’m truly living every moment to the fullest.

Ugh and no drama for me! I’ve reduced my circle of friends to a small intimate group of amazing people. I got rid of the toxic people in my life.

This year I grew so much as a person. I even became more determined and motivated. Every goal I set for myself I accomplished.

A few days ago I received a message through snapchat, which actually made me cry tears of joy. A follower told me…. “No matter what you go through, you are always so happy and smiling”. Those who follow me on snapchat know me very well because I tend to share many personal things about my life there. There is one very special thing I learned this year that I must share; being happy is a choice you have to make. My life is very far from perfect. There are many things I deal with everyday. I know what it is to be in a very unhappy place in life. I know what misery and depression are too very well. That’s not a life I wanted to live. I personally made the choice that no matter what I’ve been through or am going through nothing would take my happiness away. I’ve become determined to be the happiest I can be no matter what. All the crap I’ve been through in life are lessons learned. Now in my 30’s I’m enjoying the benefits of my bad experiences. I’ve been through it all so my judgment levels are top notch so no drama or bad vibes will get to me. I’m living life for ME and I don’t care what anyone thinks or has to say about me.

I’m going to say something which I know is going to sound super cliché but I know this new year I’ve been given is going to be my year! I’m going to make every single moment count! I’m in total control of my life. Inspiration fuels and pushes me to keep going.

To my amazing follower’s thank you all for always reading my random posts. I truly hope that my blog and style inspire you because it’s truly my purpose with Lovely Chicas. Thank you for being the main reason behind the amazing blessings and opportunities I’ve received this year. With your support none of this would be possible.

Happy Birthday to me! I’m older but I feel great!

Be You, Be Lovely
Charlene Gonzalez

My Birthday look: Rose Gold Sequined Set-Sirens / Lace-up Heel-Steve Madden / Earings-A’GACI

Makeup up: Lipstick-Urban Decay Disturbed / Eyeshadow-Urban Decay Liquid Moondust / Foundation- Urban Decay Naked Weightless Ultra Definition Shade 5.0 / Powder- Urban Decay Ultra Definition Pressed Finishing Powder / Bronzer, Highlighter, Blush- Urban DecayNaked Flushes (Streak) / Concealer- Urban Decay Naked Skin Complete Coverage Concealer (Light)

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Influencer Christmas Party

December 7, 2016

On the 1st of December the first ever influencer Christmas Party was celebrated at Comfort Inn Suites & Suites Levittown. Hosting “Christmas In Comfort” was such a perfect way to begin December. I’m extremely happy with the outcome of this event. Hard work definitely pays off. It made me so happy to see Puerto Rico’s best influencers united having such a great time.

I Want to especially thank all of the brands that formed part of this event; Coca Cola, Medalla Light, Passoa, Splenda , Dulzura Borincana, All Ways 99, Redken, Urban Decay, Delicias by Lele, Schok and A’GACI. Thank you Comfort Inn & Suites for your special treatment!

This party was completely epic but the highlight of the night was definitely creating our unique Mannequin challenge, which by the way you can check out on Lovely Chicas Facebook.

If you want to see all the details of this event checkout the pictures below or search the hashtag #NavidadesEnComfort on all social media sites!

PS: Sorry I haven’t posted much on the blog. I’ve been really busy and honestly extremely exhausted. But I have many great post coming up. I’m also very excited because it’s my birthday on Thursday December 8th!

Be You, Be Lovely
Charlene Gonzalez

My Outfit details: Sequined Dress, Shoes & Accessories-A’GACI
My Sisters Black Gown & Accessories-A’GACI

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My Trendy Schok Mini Tablet

November 8, 2016

As a blogger having high quality work equipment is a “must”. Especially when I’m always on the run and my schedule is extremely busy. Great tech gear I can count on is a necessity. So, let me introduce you to my life saving obsession, the Schok Mini. Everything I normally do with various tech gadgets I can do it all with this mini tablet. It is a total blessing because I don’t have to carry my laptop everywhere. The one thing I love the most about this mini tablet is that I could simply put it in my purse and blog on the go. The Schok Mini hardly takes up any space in my bag and since it is very lightweight it’s no inconvenience to carry everywhere with me.

Not only do I blog with my Schok Mini but I also keep up with all of my social media sites. This tablet is absolutely incredible for reading, responding and organizing emails as well. I’m very thankful the Schok has 16GB memory and a built-in SD slot to insert a 32GB card, which allows too expand its memory space because I tend to save many pictures and use tons of apps.

When it’s time to put all work aside to “Netflix and Chill” I enjoy my favorite shows on 7 inches of HD 1280 x 800 pixels with a colorful and vibrant display. In addition, the Schok’s two HD loud speakers offer extraordinary sound.

What I love most about the Schok Mini is its trendy appearance. The transparent and colorful packaging is very chic and perfect for a fashionista like me. I’m very happy to have the Schok mini in my life, helping me out everyday.

The Shock Mini is available in a grand variety of colors which include pink, purple, green, orange, titanium, white and blue. If you want to own a Schok Mini and you’re probably thinking it’s expensive let me assure you that this amazing tablet is completely budget friendly. You can have your very own tablet with the full package bundle that includes a regular charger, car charger, TPU case & 2 film display protectors for the economical price of $129.00. In Puerto Rico, the Schok Mini is available for sale at Sam’s Club Stores but you can also order online at http://www.schokgear.com/

Be You, Be Lovely
Charlene Gonzalez

“This is a sponsored post for Schok Gear. However, all thoughts and opinions expressed are my own.”

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Girl talk: When He Cheats

November 7, 2016

When I asked you ladies for the topics and themes you wanted me to cover in “Girl Talk” cheating was definitely a recurring subject in the messages I received. There was one question that especially hit me hard.

“My boyfriend cheated on me, should I forgive him?”

To answer this question I feel it’s best for me to share my personal experience. Many, many, many years ago I had a partner who I NEVER thought would be unfaithful. He had a very important position in society to the point that his reputation was admired by many. Honestly, I thought he was madly in love with me too.

Finding out he was cheating was the worst experience for me. After he had left my house one night I realized he had left his digital recorder. I immediately called him because I knew it was important to him. His quick response was “Thanks for letting me know and please don’t hear anything on it.” Ok…….if a guy tells a girl not to do something you better be sure she’s going to do it. So, I locked myself in my room and began to hear his recorder. To my surprise it wasn’t his voice on the audio but of another woman. This woman was professing her love and detailing intimate moments they had together. Her words, “When you touched me.”, “I am completely yours.”, “I belong to you; heart and body”…….those words burned deep into my mind. My legs began to shake and I collapsed to the floor feeling broken. I cried uncontrollably than the anger set in. I picked myself up, grabbed the phone and called him. When I told him what I had heard he began to cry and continuously asked for forgiveness but for me it was over. No number of sorries could ever win my trust back. To me knowing he had sex with someone else was just unforgivable. As time passed he continued to try and win my heart back. Even to a level where he asked me to marry him. The last time we spoke I remember him saying that I was going to regret the decision I made but I never did.

After that heartbreak it was very difficult for me to ever trust again. My heart was completely hardened. As time past by the roots of anger grew deeper within me. Why am I confessing this? Well, because yes you should forgive him. Forgiveness is for YOU not for him. Forgive him and move on. Forgiveness liberates your heart and brings you peace. Don’t hold onto bitterness and anger as I did. When someone breaks your heart trust is shattered. I strongly believe that when someone cheats they can do it again. Forgiving him does not mean you give him your heart again. If he hurt and disrespected you he is not worthy of your heart.

Heartbreak is the worst. When you give your heart away you trust that person to care for it. Don’t let that bad experience get you down. Sooner or later you will find someone that will truly value and love you completely. In the mean time enjoy being single. Go out with your friends and have fun, conquer your goals and rediscover yourself.

Be You, Be Lovely
Charlene Gonzalez

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Urban Decay Re-Launch Party

November 6, 2016

Urban Decay recently held it’s re-launch Party at “La Factoria” which is Puerto Rico’s hottest spot and one of the best bars in the world. As an official brand ambassador I was one of the exclusive attendees of this trendy event.

The events dress code was “Beauty With an Edge” and to me nothing could be more edgy than a leather dress.

The Crosshatch Leatherette Dress I decided to wear is from A’GACI and it has officially become my favorite little black dress. To make a sexier statement I created a fierce makeup look with Urban Decay’s Naked Smokey Palette, Vice Lipstick in the Shade “Wrong Number” and the bronzer/highlighter/blush trio Naked Flushed.

For all event details check out the event pictures below.

Be You, Be Lovely
Charlene Gonzalez